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Assisted Living in Apex, NC

Apex has 8 state-licensed assisted living communities: 3 larger communities and 5 small residential homes (16 or fewer residents). The median cost of assisted living in North Carolina is $6,496 a month (CareScout 2025), against $6,200 nationally.

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Two kinds of assisted living in Apex

3larger communities (17+ residents): apartments, a dining room, activities staff, often memory care on site; 2 have 50 or more residents.
5small residential homes (16 or fewer): a house in a neighborhood, a few caregivers, home-style meals, often a lower monthly price and a higher staff-to-resident ratio.

Both are licensed by North Carolina as assisted living. Larger communities suit people who want social life and on-site services; small homes suit people who do better with quiet, familiar routines, including many people with dementia. North Carolina words these licenses as “Family Care Home” (5), “Adult Care Home” (3).

All 8 licensed assisted living communities in Apex

Every assisted living community North Carolina licenses in Apex, from state records. Being listed is not a rating: Lilisity scores only communities with verified interviews (the Top Communities). Communities with verified reviews are listed first, then by size.

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CommunitySizeOperator · licensePrice
Calyx Living of Apexmemory care7501 Jenks RoadLarge90 residentsCarillon Assisted Living of Apex, LLCAdult Care HomeGet pricing
Spring Arbor of Apexmemory care901 Spring Arbor CourtLarge76 residentsSpring Arbor Apex NC Tenant, LLCAdult Care HomeGet pricing
The Reserve at Mills Farm3000 Mills Chase LoopMid-size35 residentsReserve at Mills Farm I, LLCAdult Care HomeGet pricing
Avendelle Assisted Living at Shepherds Vineyard1100 Wellstone CircleSmall home6 residentsDC & EC Holdings, LLCFamily Care HomeGet pricing
The Reserve at Mills Farm Villa #12000 Mills Chase LoopSmall home6 residentsReserve at Mills Farm 1, LLCFamily Care HomeGet pricing
The Reserve at Mills Farm Villa #22010 Mills Chase LoopSmall home6 residentsReserve at Mills Farm I, LLCFamily Care HomeGet pricing
The Reserve at Mills Farm Villa #32020 Mills Chase LoopSmall home6 residentsReserve at Mills Farm I, LLCFamily Care HomeGet pricing
The Reserve at Mills Farm Villa #42030 Mills Chase LoopSmall home6 residentsReserve at Mills Farm I, LLCFamily Care HomeGet pricing

How much does assisted living cost in Apex?

The median cost of assisted living in North Carolina is $6,496 a month ($77,952 a year), above the national median of $6,200. That’s CareScout’s 2025 survey, collected July to November 2025. Small residential homes often cost less than larger communities, though care needs, room type and services move the price more than the building does.

Medicare does not pay for assisted living. People pay from savings and income, long-term care insurance, or VA Aid and Attendance (up to $29,093 a year for a veteran in 2026), and some qualify for Medicaid help with care costs at communities that accept it. Who actually pays for long-term care.

Free tools: how long will the money last? · home care or assisted living? · VA Aid and Attendance estimator

Three questions to ask on every Apex tour

From 22,911 concerns residents and families raised in Senior Living Alliance phone interviews, the most common are about dining, housekeeping and hearing back from management.

  1. Can I come back and eat a meal here, unannounced?Dining was 23% of all concerns: quality that changes day to day.
  2. How is laundry labeled and tracked, and what happens when something goes missing?Housekeeping was 17%.
  3. Who is my main contact, and how often will I hear from them?Communication with management was 15%.

All 8 tour questions, with a free printable tour card (PDF).

Check a Apex community’s license

North Carolina publishes licensing records, and in most cases inspection or complaint reports, for every community on this page. Look up any community on the state’s site: info.ncdhhs.gov. Ask the community for its most recent inspection report too; they have to keep it.

Apex assisted living questions

North Carolina licenses 8 assisted living communities in Apex as of September 2026: 3 larger communities and 5 small residential homes of 16 or fewer residents, with about 231 licensed spots in all.

The median cost of assisted living in North Carolina is $6,496 a month (CareScout 2025), compared with $6,200 nationally. Prices vary with the room, the level of care and the community, so ask each one for its current rate sheet, or ask a Lilisity advisor for current prices.

Medicaid doesn't pay rent or meals in assisted living. Most states offer a Medicaid waiver or program that can pay for care services at participating communities for people who qualify; not every community takes it, so ask each one. North Carolina's Medicaid agency or your local Area Agency on Aging can tell you what's available.

North Carolina publishes its licensing records at info.ncdhhs.gov. You can also ask any community for its most recent state inspection report.

Assisted Living near Apex

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