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Decision paralysis is common when selecting a senior living community. Broadening your research beyond tours and websites can unlock insight you’d otherwise miss.

Insurance & Financial Review

Consult an insurance agent about potential policy benefits. Some life insurance policies will allow you to borrow on or cash-out premiums to help cover community fees.

Medical Consultation

Seeking guidance from geriatric specialists rather than general practitioners can provide a more nuanced assessment. A geriatrician might recommend independent living where a regular doctor would suggest assisted living based on fall risk alone.

Community Insight Sources

Social workers understand facility problems firsthand. Religious leaders, real estate agents, and others in your community who interact with seniors regularly can also be valuable — while remembering that personal anecdotes should be evaluated for patterns rather than taken individually.

Personal Reflection

Your decision is about trusting what you have learned and the conclusions you have drawn. And remember: choosing a community isn’t final — you retain the flexibility to relocate if needed.

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What will senior living cost, and how will we pay?

Our free guide shows the starting prices communities post for each kind of care, walks you through a monthly budget, and explains how insurance, VA benefits, Medicaid and Medicare can help.

Cover of the Lilisity guide Paying for Senior Living

Free guide · 16 pages

Paying for Senior Living

Costs by type of care, a monthly budget, and how insurance, the VA, Medicaid and Medicare help.

Cover of the Lilisity guide Paying for Senior Living

Free guide · 16 pages

Paying for Senior Living

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