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Leaving an unsatisfactory senior living community is a valid choice when it improves quality of life. Approach the next search methodically.

Assess Your Needs First

Identify specific complaints about your current community. Then turn those negatives about the current community into desirable attributes for your next search.

Research Multiple Sources

Use a range of resources including online platforms, review sites, and personal referrals. Keep in mind that review sites like Yelp may skew toward extremes — usually only extremely happy or angry customers take the time to review.

Visit in Person

Direct observation is crucial. Visit the community to truly understand what the environment, staff, and residents are really like. Many facilities now offer overnight stays to help evaluate the actual atmosphere.

What to Observe

Pay attention to how staff interact with current residents, residents’ appearance and grooming, and genuine social dynamics — rather than behavior modified by your presence as a visitor.

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What will senior living cost, and how will we pay?

Our free guide shows the starting prices communities post for each kind of care, walks you through a monthly budget, and explains how insurance, VA benefits, Medicaid and Medicare can help.

Cover of the Lilisity guide Paying for Senior Living

Free guide · 16 pages

Paying for Senior Living

Costs by type of care, a monthly budget, and how insurance, the VA, Medicaid and Medicare help.

Cover of the Lilisity guide Paying for Senior Living

Free guide · 16 pages

Paying for Senior Living

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