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Choosing a senior living community is a big decision — but the process doesn’t have to be overwhelming. Here’s a simple three-phase approach.

1. Understand Care Types

Assess physical and mental needs, consult your physician, and learn about the five main care categories: home health, independent living, assisted living, memory care, and skilled nursing facilities.

2. Research Reputations

Consult reputable sites that seek out resident reviews to gain candid opinions alongside government oversight records. Community referrals from local nonprofits and word-of-mouth are also valuable.

3. Visit Personally

Nothing can replace a first-hand experience in a community. Tours, meals, and overnight stays let you evaluate atmosphere, culture, and daily life firsthand. Ask questions freely — unexpected strengths often emerge during visits that weren’t initially apparent.

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What will senior living cost, and how will we pay?

Our free guide shows the starting prices communities post for each kind of care, walks you through a monthly budget, and explains how insurance, VA benefits, Medicaid and Medicare can help.

Cover of the Lilisity guide Paying for Senior Living

Free guide · 16 pages

Paying for Senior Living

Costs by type of care, a monthly budget, and how insurance, the VA, Medicaid and Medicare help.

Cover of the Lilisity guide Paying for Senior Living

Free guide · 16 pages

Paying for Senior Living

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