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Selecting a senior living community for your parents comes down to a handful of questions — and it starts the moment you walk through the door.

First Impressions Matter

Observe staff warmth and whether they know residents personally. “Was the reception staff warm and welcoming?” sets the tone for evaluating facility culture.

Location

Proximity to family and essential services is important. Check whether pharmacies, restaurants, and theaters are accessible from the community.

Services and Care Levels

Facilities should provide support ranging from basic housekeeping to memory care and skilled nursing. Mental welfare checks and a staff that regularly interacts with your parents should not be considered a “bonus.”

Physical Space

Don’t compromise on adequate living space just for a convenient location. Sufficient bedrooms and bathrooms matter for your parents’ day-to-day quality of life.

Activities and Engagement

Access to dining, events, and entertainment supports mental wellbeing. Tours should include observation of available activities in progress.

Safety and Staffing

Critical requirements: CPR-certified staff, onsite nursing professionals, and coordination with your parent’s primary care physician.

Tour with your parents when possible, and stay in regular communication with staff after move-in to ensure ongoing wellbeing.

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What will senior living cost, and how will we pay?

Our free guide shows the starting prices communities post for each kind of care, walks you through a monthly budget, and explains how insurance, VA benefits, Medicaid and Medicare can help.

Cover of the Lilisity guide Paying for Senior Living

Free guide · 16 pages

Paying for Senior Living

Costs by type of care, a monthly budget, and how insurance, the VA, Medicaid and Medicare help.

Cover of the Lilisity guide Paying for Senior Living

Free guide · 16 pages

Paying for Senior Living

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Free for families. No community pays Lilisity per inquiry, per referral or per move-in. How we are paid.